Tuesday, January 21, 2014

How to Grow 1 Inch Hair Length in 1 Week

If your hair is really short and you would like to know how to grow it at least 1 inch in a week, just watch this following video.  We couldn't believe it at first, but after watching some black women give their testimony of positive results...Read full article, here.

Source: Real Long Hair
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How to Grow Your Hair Over 18 inches Long

Sisters, never say you cannot grow your hair very long.  Many of you still think you have to be mixed, Hispanic or of European descent to grow long hair and that's not true.   If you want to grow long hair, stop believing the lies that black women cannot grow long hair.  Therefore, we want you to watch this video of this woman who is a witness you can grow hair over 18 inches long.   

Before you watch the video, we want to discourage you from looking at the present condition of your hair, but imagine growing long hair.  Imagine, have faith and never give up.  Stop believing that we as black women are cursed with short and damaged hair.

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Thursday, January 2, 2014

Black Women, my husband left me for a white woman after I lost my hair

Black women, Lucille shared her story with us about how her husband leaving her for a white woman.  Lucille thought she had an advantage over the average black woman, because she is bi-racial with light skin, but says now she accepts herself just as a black woman.   She never thought Dave would leave her, because he would place her upon a pedestal whenever they were seen by some black women.   Now, she says she feels really bad and realizes she is not equal to her white mother who does not know how it feels to be black.   

Lucille went on to admit she thought she had it easier, but now feels her ex-husband who is a black man has discriminated against her, because he chose to be with a white woman as though she is above her.  Now, she says she is frustrated and does not know how to feel equal to black women, although she no longer sees herself as bi-racial.  

Lucille opened up with us about how she found out her husband was cheating on her.  She said after she lost her hair to a bad perm, Dave bein being very distant from her.   Lucille describes her hair as very kinky, but at one time very long.  So, she would regularly put a relaxer in it.  One day, she allowed another beautician to do her hair, since her regular beautician went on a vacation.  Two weeks later, her hair begin falling out, so she cut it all off and sometimes began wearing wigs.  After leaving her job one evening, she wanted to surprise Dave with their favorite food, pizza and spicy wings, but when she opened the bedroom door, she immediately was shocked by this other woman wearing her negligee, sleeping in her bed, next to Dave.   She screamed and began demanding that Dave and the woman get out of the condominium.  Every since, she has not heard from Dave until 2 weeks ago when he came by to get his belongings.   She confronted him, and asked him why he cheated on her, he bluntly admitted he loved her hair, not really in love with her.

Lucille, thanks so much for reading SoulsofBlackWomen.com.  We are very sorry about your hair loss and also very sorry about your husband leaving you.  However, we are so glad you are out of that failed marriage, because you would have never found out how he really felt about you.  Now, you can live your life without someone just being in love with your hair.  You want a man to love you for you, not just your beauty.  

As for now accepting yourself just as a black woman, we fully support you and completely understand why you have made this decision.   It really does hurt when some black men leave us for white women, but we could never imagine what it's like for this to happen and your mother is white.  However, do not let this other woman create a wall between you and your mother.  You must still love and respect her, but be honest and tell your mother how you feel and why you chose to no longer claim being bi-racial.  Always remember, no matter how you see yourself, bi-racial or black,  you are still beautiful, because God made you that way and it does not matter if you have long hair or short hair.    Furthermore, Dave is very ignorant, because he does not realize that there are many white women who also lose their hair, because of a bad perm.  What would happen if this other woman loses her hair?  Is he going to leave her too? 

Now Lucille, what you said about feeling equal to black women is irrelevant, because we do have a lot of issues among us.  There are many black women who don't feel equal among themselves, because they refuse to unite.  So, if you are going to identify with being a black woman, don't do it, because you expect to feel equal to black women, do it, because you feel that's who you know you are and its going to make you happy.  Most of all, never forget this fact, whether you see yourself as bi-racial or as a black woman you are still special in the eyes of God.

God bless you Lucille and thanks for reading SoulsofBlackWomen.com.  We hope we have been been able to somewhat help you.

Note: All names and photos are fictitious
Photo: Bananastock 

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Black Women, my husband left me on New Year's Day, Now Resolution is ruined

Sisters, one of our readers contacted us about her long-time boyfriend leaving her yesterday.  She helped him raise his twin sons, which they both had custody of for the entire 15 years they were married.  Regina (fictitious) She tried to make things work, but he ignored her.  She spoke to him about her dreams and how they were going to have a lot success and prosperity, but he continued to pack his belongings and even talked with his parents on the phone for hours to avoid speaking to her.  Now, she's asking Souls of Black Women to help her hold onto her New Year's resolution, in-spite of him leaving her.

Regina tells us she feels he went back to the mother of his children, regardless of her cheating with his best-friend.  Regina says she remained faithful, although she was not perfect and she just cannot understand why he would go back to his ex-wife.  She admits to making mistakes, such as using harsh words sometimes, but she asked for his forgiveness.  Although, he claimed to forgive her, he still moved out and even communicated with his ex-wife on his cell phone in their living room for hours as she was left in the bedroom, all alone. She shares with us that Larry (fictitious) continued to lie and say he was not angry about anything, but that he needed to move out to go see about his other 3 kids at his mothers house.  However, they do not live with his mother, but with his ex-wife.   He took his twins and left her and never calls to see how she's doing.  Every-time, she calls him, he never returns her phone calls.

Regina says she had plans to make a lot of money and had a strategy to become a self-made millionaire, but now, she works a full-time job and can hardly invest in her business venture.  When Larry was living with her, he paid the rent and cared for her, so she had to rush and apply for jobs.  Finally, she found one in retail, which keeps her on her feet for long hours and she is too tired to study her business venture once she arrives home most evenings.  She works full-time and she feels very worn out.  Therefore, she feels her New Year's resolution is ruined.

Regina, thanks for contacting Souls of Black Women.  We feel very bad your broken relationship, but not so bad, because it's no doubt, working for your good.  However, you need to think about this, you were probably with the wrong man, anyway.  Of course, you need to accept he has moved on with his life, he just does not know how to be honest with you.  Larry is not a real man, because a real man will open up and honestly tell you that he needs to move on.   Instead, Larry has behaved as a coward who is acting very childish, out of bitterness.   Regina, be very strong and accept the fact that if Larry cannot forgive you, that's his problem.  You need to move on and wait on God to send you another man.

As for your New Year's resolution, never think just because Larry moved out, your dream will never come true.  Your dream to become a self-made millionaire will come true, but you need to realize the riches you make in the future is not for you to share with Larry, but for yourself or with another man who you are meant to share your life with.  Your life is not over, just because he decided to leave you on New Year's day. Your life is not over, just because you spent many years raising his twins and never bore his seed.  Your life is not over, just because you cannot find time or have the money to invest in your dream.  It may take sometime, but it will happen.

We just want to give you a tip for your business venture to become a reality.  Some people work 2 jobs, but it can be very tiring.  So, there are other streams you could do to make extra money.  For example, If you have a little bit of money out of each check, save it.  Do you like to cook?  Possibly, you can make extra money by baking pies, cookies and cakes and selling them at your job or in your neighborhood.  You could start a bake sale in front of your local grocery store, but of course, you may need to ask first. You could care for dogs or create crafts and sell them in your spare time. There's a lot you could do on your off days, besides rest.  The point is, don't give up, never give up.  You always have to start somewhere in order to reach a certain point to where you want to be in your life.  

Always remember your life is not over Regina. It's only over, once you give up on it.

Note: All names and photos are fictitious
Source: Creatas

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