Tuesday, August 28, 2012

NYPD Sgt. Damaris Diaz arrested for keying her boyfriend's Car: Black women, let's not lose our integrity

This is the daughter of Senator Ruben Diaz, Damaris Diaz.  If you will recall he is one of the fewest politicians whom has publicly opposed gay marriage, although his granddaughter allegedly married a woman.   As a man of God, he stood up for Jesus Christ, leading many blacks and Hispanics in a street rally in New York.  Now, one of his daughters, Damaris Diaz who is a NYPD Sgt. was arrested for keying her boyfriend's car.  The forty-three year old cop was obviously so angry, she sent him almost 60 text messages in two days, according to NYDailyNews.com.   Sisters, we cannot allow any man make us so mad, we lose our integrity.   Damaris is not only a known politician's daughter who is standing up for righteousness, but she also has been very blessed to have a job as a police officer, most women could not handle in one of the most dangerous cities in America.

Of course, a woman being a police officer deals with a lot of stress on the job, but also as black women we deal with a lot of stress anyway and we cannot ever allow anyone to destroy our integrity, just because they do not seem to care about us as much as we care for them.  Damaris' boyfriend even kept the text messages, even the one that forewarned him that she would key his car, so this automatically led to her as the prime suspect.   So ask yourselves, what is so good about this man that would make her want to text him almost 60 times and then key his car?  Is it his appearance or personality?  Neither reasons are ever acceptable and if you ever find yourself so angry that you desire to destroy your man's possessions let him go.  God has got too many good men in the body of Christ and He will save one of them for you, if you will learn how to wait on him and not deal with anyone whom is going to cause you malice or to always be upset.

Now, we do not know if Damaris Ruben will be allowed to keep her job, but her boyfriend was not worth her losing it or even having the charge on her record, even if she is allowed to return to work.    We encourage you black women to hold onto whatever position God has given you and do not feel so angry, you desire to get revenge that would take away your freedom.  Love yourself more than that man.

In the meantime, we will Damaris Ruben and her father, Senator Ruben in our prayers.

State Sen. Ruben Diaz's cop daughter arrested for keying her boyfriend's car in the Bronx

An NYPD sergeant— who’s the daughter of State Sen. Ruben Diaz — was arrested for keying her cop boyfriend’s car after sending him a flurry of hostile text and voice messages, authorities said.

Veteran cop Damaris Diaz, 43, was charged with criminal mischief and aggravated harassment for the off-duty incident in Bronxdale in which she...Read full article, here.

Source and Photo Courtesy: NYDailyNews.com

Photo Courtesy: Kevin Heckman for New York Daily News



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