Melissa Bridgewater lost her life, after meeting up with her ex-husband Jerry Hudson, 51. He must have been insanely jealous she was staying at a $240-a-night hotel on New Year’s Day in 2010 with her new boyfriend. Hudson seemed to had been harassed Melissa by calling her 20 times in over an hour's time before he rammed her with his car and murdered her. If you have previously read our blog, you can recall us forewarning you about being very cautious about the relationships in your life. Of course, this case teaches us something even more, although you may choose to move on with your life, you still need to be cautious and think before making a decision to meet with your ex-husband or ex-boyfriend. You do not know what sort of demon maybe controlling him to take your life, especially if you are involved with another man. The Lord wants us to seek Him, after we make a wise decision to leave a violent man who could be possessed with a demon of murder.
As followers of Jesus Christ, God wants us to be wise to never meet up with someone we used to be in a relationship with, if we have moved on with another man. There are too many black women whom are no longer here, because they have made the wrong decision to communicate with someone they claim to no longer have feelings for. God understands we make mistakes in our lives and the husbands we choose may not be according to his will, but after realizing that fact, we have got send a message to these men we are holy and completely serving God. Melissa had divorced this Jerry Hudson back in 2006, reminding him there was no chance of them getting back together as a couple. Therefore, this reveals there should have been absolutely no communication in 2010. When we as black women let go, it means to completely let go. Then, we must surrender our lives to God and honor His request to live a complete holy lifestyle. It is not his will for us to make our ex-husbands or ex-boyfriends jealous, after we have let them go. We are not saying that was Melissa's motive, but we cannot comprehend why she would meet with this man, after she had divorced him a few years before. It does not matter if, Jerry Hudson had called her one hundred times, it was not necessary for her to meet with him and even worse, at a hotel where she and her new boyfriend were celebrating the New Year.
As you can see in the above photo, Jerry Hudson appears to have a continence of rage in his soul. He apparently does not appear to be a holy and righteous man and so we are not surprised he would lie and say he thought Melissa Bridgewater was reaching for her gun. When police went and searched her car, there was no gun found. Also, in the above photo, Jerry Hudson is not an attractive black man. You see, we as black women must not only be careful who we marry, but let us trust God for a good-looking man. However, maybe Melissa thought he was good-looking, we can't see it. The main thing is to make sure the black men we choose are truly saved and living a holy life. His soul must be right with God, because it does not matter if he is is handsome or unattractive to most of us, God desires for us to wait on Him for the right man. When God sends us the right man, dear sisters, we will not have to divorce him or he divorce us, but we as black virtuous women can spend the rest of our lives with God's appointed and anointed man for our lives.
Melissa Bridgewater was on 45 years old. May she rest in peace.
'I thought she was going for a gun': Angry husband who shot unarmed ex-wife six times after ramming her with his car claims he killed her in SELF-DEFENCE
By Mark Duell
An angry jilted husband shot dead his unarmed ex-wife outside a Hilton hotel where she had been staying with her new boyfriend, a court heard.
Jerry Hudson, 51, of Bolingbrook, Illinois, allegedly murdered Melissa Bridgewater outside the $240-a-night hotel on New Year’s Day in 2010.
He phoned her 20 times in the 90 minutes before her death, rammed her car and shot her six times - with two bullets in the head, prosecutors said.
‘This is not a case of who done it,’ John Lyke Jr, defending, told DuPage County Court, arguing...Read full article, here.
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