Wednesday, November 30, 2011

How Do Black Women Love Their Husbands, If They Live Double Lives Like Herman Cain?

For the third time, we have heard allegations against GOP candidate, Herman Cain.   He is best known as a smart business man, mathematician, former CEO of Godfather's Pizza, former president of National Restaurant Association and served on many prestigious corporate boards. You may not know it, but Herman Cain is also the assistant pastor of Antioch Baptist Church North in Atlanta.  Yes, he is a so-call man of the clothe while claiming he is for morals and values and planned to reveal them for America to turn around from wickedness.  He has been trying to run for president of the United States until his alleged past affairs have been leaking out to the press.   This is the third time Herman Cain is denying his past affairs with women.  This time, Herman Cain is denying his affair with Ginger White, a struggling Atlanta business woman he never denied giving money to.  The question remains, how can we as black women love our husbands who hold such prestigious positions like Herman Cain, after we have discovered their discreet affairs?

After 43 years of marriage, Gloria Cain allegedly claims on a previous interview, she trust and knows her husband more than anyone.   However, if this were you, how would you deal with it?   As wives who are married to successful black men like Herman Cain and even those of us who may meet someone like him for marriage, just how do we deal with such alleged hypocrisy?   Although, we marry for better or for worse, there are some things we must put into perspective.

First and foremost, we do not know if anyone of these women Herman Cain has been allegedly accused of sleeping with are clean of STD's.  Like we said before, although we marry for better or for worse, in sickness and health, we are very sure, God desires for us to be smart wives.  We cannot risk our lives if our husbands are at risk for AIDS or any other sexually transmitted diseases.   We must be very careful dear sisters what steps to take, if we discover our husband have been sleeping with other women or even men.   Therefore, if we are married to a pastor, politician or even both, we must stay prayed up and make sure our husbands are in line with God.   God desires for marriages to work out, but even after four decades of marriage, we cannot be ignorant, not saying Gloria Cain is an ignorant woman.  She appears to be very intelligent, but we are speaking of ourselves as black women who are married to our own husbands or are bachelorettes.   We must be very careful to examine our marriages before God and if so happens are husbands are caught in adultery, we must thoroughly question whom he has been spending time with, so we can take care of our bodies.

Now, this third woman named Ginger White says she had been having an affair with Herman Cain at luxury hotels, allegedly.  She had been giving her money and gifts.   Her alleged affair lasted for over 13 years.    How much time did Herman Cain spend away from his wife?   Therefore his business trips, were not always about business, obviously.  So dear sisters, if your husband is claiming he is taking care of business and not taking you on them while spending time overnight away from you, it is not worth your life.  You must love yourself and even the children you bore for him, to question why he may not desire to include you on his long distance trips.   As a pastor, politician or a business man, our husbands must love us enough to include us in their lives when it takes away so much time from the family. 

Now, the Cains maybe very proud to be married for over 43 years, but was Herman always faithful.   So, what we are asking you dear sisters is this question, why boast about how long you have been married, if your husband places your family name in the press in a negative fashion?   Now, although Herman Cain says he is concerned about his wife and kids, did he think about all of this mess, if and when he allegedly had an affair with Ginger White and the other two women?   Who knows? There are probably more women whom just have not had a chance to confess their lustful experiences with Herman Cain.    

So dear black women, we can love our husbands and enjoy the success with them like Gloria Cain, but let God lead and guide us if we should discover about their discreet double lives.  It is alright to be strong in front of strangers, but deep down and inside let us all heal our emotional pain from such alleged mischief we have endured in marriage with our cheating husbands.  We can love our husbands, but we sure must love ourselves and learn how to take care of ourselves during the process of healing from his adulterous affairs. Get prayer, seek help and continually discuss your husband's problem of lust and please get a medical examination.

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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Atlanta Police Officers Shoot and Kill Woman Who Stabbed Own Child: Don't Let This Be You Dear Sister

Although, we already wrote about this issue on our sister blog, Sanctified Church Revolution, we felt we also needed to touch basis with this sudden tragedy here on Souls of Black Women blog.  Dear sisters, we pray for whomever this woman is in Atlanta and may God rest here soul.  However, we as black women must learn how to love those who remain in the heart of the ghetto.  Not all black women hate us, because we managed to cease such a devious atmosphere.  There are some women in the black community who admire those special black women who are there for them, if they request.   In this article, we will discuss how you can help yourself, if you have felt so weary in your oppression.   Maybe you are a single mother and you are trying so hard to raise your children all by yourself and there is no one to help you, not even your family or the black church.   Dear sisters, do not let this be you.  Although it is not easy to overcome your depression while enduring personal hardships, you and your children can make it.   Even women who have never been married and never had children bare the same depression while living in an oppressed atmosphere, it does not matter, the emotional trauma haunts all black women.

In today's society, many successful African American women cease the black community while not caring about black women whom yet struggle in their personal lives.   Dear sisters, although they may leave, you must know God is present with you.   Do not allow demons such as the ones who controlled this woman to cause you to have a nervous break down.  This poor woman told a close friend she specifically had 9 demons who were harassing her.  No doubt, Satan sent them to control her emotions, which forced her to lose her mind and murder her 4-year-old girl and choke her son.   This Atlanta woman lost her mind, because obviously, she felt all alone.  She could have been on drugs, we will never know.  All we know is she needed someone to assist her, be there for her while she was having a hard time taking care of herself and children.  She told one neighbor her lights had just got cut off.   So, this is a clear sign, she had a financial burden that possibly caused her to worthless as a single mom.  

Do not let this be you to go out of your mind, you are not aware you are harming your children and putting yourself at risk to get gunned down by police.   We want you to seek help, even if it means contacting us to reach out to you.   You must love yourself enough to believe there is a God and He is present, no matter what worse predicament or problem we face on a daily basis.  The demons that may lie to you and tell you, you are nothing and worthless as a black woman, single mother on welfare and even just never able to really settle down with a good husband and children are not stronger than God.  You must learn how to speak to your own soul, dear sister.   Encourage yourself, no matter how you feel and no matter what you see.  No matter how evil people may act around you and no matter what negative lies they may speak into your life, please realize God is bigger than them and He loves you much more than they do.  It may not be easy, but learn how to cry out to God and ask Jesus Christ to be with you as soon as you wake up in the morning, during the day and even before you go to bed.

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Atlanta police officers shoot and kill woman who was stabbing her young child to death

Four-year-old girl dead, 8-year-old boy in stable condition after violent attack: cops

ATLANTA — Police officers shot and killed a woman in an Atlanta home when she didn’t comply with orders to stop stabbing her young daughter, who also died, authorities said Monday.
Police and fire rescue personnel were called to the home Monday afternoon and were told an 8-year-old boy had been assaulted by his mother and thrown out a window, said an Atlanta Police spokesman, Maj. Keith Meadows.

Meadows said witnesses told officers the mother was alone inside the home with her young daughter. He said officers entered the house and found the mother sitting in a chair, stabbing the child.
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Monday, November 28, 2011

Dear Black Women, Be Careful of Men Like Giants Legend Lawrence Taylor Who Is Accused of Alleged Child Molestation

Dear sisters, we must be very careful when waiting on God to give us the right man.   There are many black women who make the average mistake of dating the wrong man and then instantly assuming God gave a certain man to them, if he has a lot of money and possibly a very successful famous person.   Just because there is a shortage of black men, it does not mean we are suppose to not weed them out.   You know, we still have to place ourselves beyond those who do not deserve us.   This man Lawrence Taylor is a linebacker for the Giants is allegedly accused of molesting this young girl and paid her $300 dollars, according to the New York Daily News.   This is the sort of man who may approach us and make it as though we are his queen.  Lawrence Taylor does not to be an attractive man, but maybe to the average black woman whom may never had a man, he may be the most handsome man she has ever met.  Why?  Because many of our dear sisters are fooled into believing, just because a black man may approach you and possibly ask to marry you, you he is the man God planned for you to be with for the rest of your life.   Really?   You better think again black women, because it is men like Lawrence Taylor whom are allegedly attracted to teen girls and in some cases, young boys.

Dear black women, this article is to remind you to be very careful, if you happen to get asked out on a date by a man like Giants' linebacker, Lawrence Taylor, because you do not know what demons of lust is in his heart.   There are still a lot of good black men who may really be righteous, but then, there are some who claim to be righteous while discreetly infatuated with teenagers who were still in diapers when they graduated high school.  You have to be very careful, you do not know if this type of man may mess around with your someone your are close to, whether it be your best friend, family member or even your little sister underage.  This is why it is so very important to get saved and ask God to show you the right man.   Do not accept every man with a pair of legs standing in front of you.   If you do not feel Jesus coming from this man, God is trying to tell you not to waste your time.  If you do not know Jesus Christ, get to know Him and ask Him to bless you with a gift to search the spirits of a man and He will reveal to you, if he is good or evil.   Therefore, you will know if he is into alleged sinful attractions like Lawrence Taylor.

Now see, if this man Lawrence Taylor is married to a black woman, this is very nasty.  This would make any black woman angry and not trust being with a man ever again.  Then, you have some silly women who will stay with a man, after they discover he is accused of child molestation, it's sick and disgusting but it is true.  There are true stories about these type of women out there.

Teen sues Giants legend Lawrence Taylor over sex case: Bronx girl seeks damages 

Seeks damages under federal statute

Legendary Giants linebacker Lawrence Taylor was sacked with a child sex lawsuit Monday by a Bronx teenager who was forced to have sex with him for $300 at a Rockland County hotel.

The victim, Cristine Fierro, said Taylor deserved jail for what he did to her two years ago — not just probation.

“I was glad Mr. Taylor was prosecuted, but I feel as though he should have gone to jail to think about what he has done to me,” Fierro said, reading from a statement. “I am very hurt because of what I was forced to do against my own will with Mr. Taylor in that room that night. It is something that is always going to be with me."

Dressed in jeans, black boots and a sparkly gray top, the now 18-year-old said she has been trying to Read full article, here.

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Dear Black Women, Listen to Patricia Waldren's Testimony of Being Delivered From Drugs

Greetings in the name of our most high God.   We just want to encourage each and everyone of our dear sisters whom have been strung out on drugs and alcohol.  We discovered Patricia Waldren's testimony on CBN and she tells a story of how God saved her in her jail cell, instantly.  He delivered her from being a drug attic.   Patrica grew up under a very abusive father who beat her mother and was an alcoholic she vowed to never follow after.  However, Satan deceived this dear sister and she endured a lifetime of misery for 24-years.   Even after losing her her two children to Child Protective Services, Satan had her in bondage.

One day, on a hard cement floor in her jail cell, Patricia Waldren quoted one specific scripture she knew and instantly she had no desire for crack cocaine.  Our dear God delivered her when she cried out to him.  

God is amazing isn't He?   This is the sort of loving God we serve, One who loves us, even when people tell us we are trash, we will never amount up to anything in life and failure is our destiny.   Black women or any other race, God will heal you, all you have to do, is cry out to Him and He will set you completely free.  Have faith in God and do not give up, He is a strong deliverer, regardless of our race, background or age.   When people put us down for the negative things we may have got caught up in, God will hold us and never let us go.

Please watch this following video and if you do not know the Lord as your personal Savior, we welcome you to visit our Salvation page.   God bless and keep you.

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Friday, November 25, 2011

Nail Salon Brawl in Georgia: Do Black Women Hate Each Other This Much?

On this following video, we observed such hatred among black women in the 21st century.   After all the years of struggling as single black mothers, battered wives, pregnant and molested by preachers in the pulpit, being rejected by our own race as the ugliest women on earth, years of putting up with competition among shade ignorance within our own race, raising up our sons to respect black women while they witness hatred among black women in the family, we yet have so much animosity among the race of black women.   Many black women will go so far to cause strife among good friends, by pulling one down and purposely lift the other one up, pure jealousy.   Many black women of today will calculatingly destroy marriages by sleeping with a married man whom may belong to a faithful black wife while yet we complain white women are taking our men.   Black women are the ones who are responsible for killing each other, it is not necessarily white supremacists, no, the ones who have always been called the mother of civilization are the ones carrying on their assignment for Satan to kill black women.   Satan's plan is very shrewd, he knows how much black women hate themselves, so those who will easily attack each other for no reason are the ones to remind other black women they are worth nothing.   So, many will easily attack each other like dogs on this following video.  

Unfortunately, instead of serving the Lord, many black women just like on this crazy scene at the Wal-Mart Nail Salon have voluntarily accepted the Devil's assignment to destroy other black women.   These particular black women are demon possessed and are programmed to automatically attack other black women who mind their own business.   As you can see, this is why sons of black mothers grow up and do not want to marry a black woman.   Many of them have seen so much wrath among black women they grew up around and this has caused them to hate every black woman they see.   So now, it is obvious why good black men have turned away from the most prettiest black woman.  Not all black men are bad, it is just that they do not want to put up with this mess.   If you marry a vicious black woman by accident, wouldn't that be very disrespectful to the womb whom conceived you?   

Dear black sisters, this is a mess.   We cannot expect for things to get better among the entire race of black women, if there is so much hatred among us.  Therefore, it is time to go to God and if they call us stuck up, so what.  At least we got our lives and they will not be able to kill us mentally, verbally or even physically.   We must learn how to pray for certain types of black women at a distance.   We cannot allow these sort of black women to wound our spirits so much, we cannot love ourselves or even other black women whom have done nothing to us.   

This video is a perfect example of why we as black women are so divided and confused.   This is why black mothers have difficulty loving and trusting their daughters and vice versa, simply because there is no unity among us.   However, dear sisters if we do not have Jesus Christ abiding in our spirits, then, we cannot expect there to be ever peace and without peace, we will never have unity.   Therefore make up in your mind, if you are going to give your soul to God, because when God gets ready for your life to end, what will you say to Him on judgement day, if you were evil and lived for Satan?   Do not be a follower of other evil women just because you are afraid of what they will do to you.   You are holy, if you have accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Savior, so fear has no place in your life.   All through God's Word, He commanded us not to fear.   Many times, black women turn their backs on integrity, because they are afraid of black women who are bullies.   For black women who do not want God, pray for them, but do not allow them to destroy your dignity.  Keep in mind, there are many black women who are destroying the positive image of black women as a whole, not necessarily the black man or white supremacists.  For many years, Satan has used black women to destroy others,  just like men or any other race.

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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Could Men Like Steve Harvey Be The Reason Many Black Women Run To White Men?

We would like to deal with this issue, because our dear sisters are flustered after feeling they were badly mistreated, physically and emotionally abused and verbally mistreated by the men they once loved in their lives.  There are certain black men who create such division between black women, because we have allowed them to.   In today's society, we are seeing the numbers increase with more black women being in bi-racial relationships with black white, simply because they feel they have received the love black men no longer desire with them.   In some cases, it may not be about taking leftovers from white women, but it is about yearning to feel desired by a real man.  To some black women, the white men who agree to marry them do not tell them their dark skin is ugly or they are inferior to them, instead they are treating their them royal, simply because they see how many black men have left black women. When we examine how Steve Harvey allegedly mistreated his ex-wife Mary Harvey and allegedly left her for another black woman who cared nothing for her wounded emotions, we can understand to some extent why many black women are excepting the invitation of white men who desire to love them and treat them like the royal queens they are.

Of course, Souls of Black Women have encouraged our dear sisters to wait on God and not to follow the average woman today who has chosen to marry a white man, because others are doing so.   However, we do understand certain situations of our dear sisters who are not going to turn down a white man's invitation for true love, if it comes her way.   Why?  Because many of our dear sisters are tired of being forgotten about, not just by black men who mistreat them, but also black women who back them up and make mockery of their emotional pain.   Bi-racial relationships that include our dear black sisters with white men are in the hands of God, because we cannot allow our dear black sisters like Mary Harvey to continue to be mistreated by their ex-husbands and ex-boys friends who allegedly care nothing about their wounded feelings.   However, God cares and He sees the pain of our dear sisters whom have accepted a white man's proposal for a good and wholesome marriage.   No, we are not ignoring the scripture in Deuteronomy, which told tribes not to take part in interracial marriages, but we can say we do understand it is time for black women to stand together and pray, because we cannot allow our dear sisters to endure pain by the entire race of black people who enslave their own race by emotionally insulting them.   This sort of slavery the entire race of African Americans place own their black women,  we discussed in our previous article. 

Could men like Steve Harvey be the alleged reason why many black women like Mellody Hobson are in bi-racial relationships with white men like George Lucas?  If it is, God bless them all and may we stand together in prayer and unity. One things we are concerned about is this very issue, what happens when our dear black sisters who are connected with these white men face racism.  How do they deal with it and can they talk with their white husbands?

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Monday, November 21, 2011

Black Women Losing Hair Because of Lace Fronts, Advice: Stop Trying to Look Like Celebrities With No Hair

Like we have told you before, wearing hair that is not yours is not want Jesus Christ wants for you.  Dear black women, you can only take heed to our advice, if you are holy and righteous.  If you are not, then you will not understand our wisdom.   Let us be very clear with you, when the teen girl went on a tour with Jesus Christ to hell and allegedly spotted Michael Jackson, Selena and the Pope, she also confessed the Son of God's concern for women who do not take care of their own hair when He took her to heaven.   Angelica Zambrano is her name and she mentioned that Jesus wants us to take care of our crown.   What is our crown?   It is our own hair and it is not weaves, wigs, extensions or even lace fronts.   This news of many black women losing their hair because of lace-fronts is no surprise to us.  For we have told you before in a previous article when we first presented Souls of Black Women to you that if you truly are a servant of Jesus Christ, you have no business wearing fake hair, but trusting Him to grow your own hair and learn how to not only grow it, but take care of it.  You will never grow your hair as long as you continue to think celebrities are pretty and you are ugly.  So this false illusion drives you to desire to look like these celebrities who do not even wear their real hair and so like them, you have made the wrong choice by spending hundreds of dollars on weaves, wigs, hair extensions and lace fronts.   God's ideal beauty is certainly not for you to look like Tyra Banks (above photo), Beyonce or whomever else is famous who is not growing their own hair.   

Black women losing hair is nothing new, it is not just because of these lace fronts, it is also because of all fake hair that robs your own roots from growing your own hair and this has been going on for many years.  Sadly, most generations of black women can recall their great-grandmothers wearing wigs.   Right now, if they look back in their photo albums, they will see black women in their families wearing wigs, weaves and hair pieces.   Why?  Simply because they believed the famous ancient lie, black women cannot grow long hair.

This is one of the biggest reasons why good black men have turned their back on the race of black women, because they do not see many of us growing our own natural hair.  You may say it won't grow.   Dear sister, don't you know words have power.  Stop saying it won't grow.   If you keep repeating that ancient myth, then you will never experience wearing your own natural long hair.  Why would God bless other races and not black women?   Get real, He does not love them more than us.   So, start valuing what God can do for you as His child, then learn how to take care for it as you grow it, then you will began to finally enjoy wearing your own hair.   

Furthermore, the reason why a lot of black women wear lace fronts, is simply because they lost it from wearing tight extensions.  It has happened to all of us at some point in our lives.  Then, you hear another ancient myth like the one from Oprah's personal hair stylist, Andre who allegedly claimed you will never get your hair back around the sides after losing it.  They call this a form of Alopecia, but ladies, we have seen actual testimonies of how black women overcame this myth and their hair grew back, so do not give up.   We will also show you an actual video on an upcoming article of a woman who was extremely bald around the sides and she grew her hair back.   It took months, but her hair grew back.   

Bottom line, began to love yourself and stop wasting your time focusing on these celebrities who do not have any hair under those weaves and wigs they wear; because the truth is, if you saw the real them, you would not want to look like them.   Another thing, if you continue to wear these lace fronts, you will die having no hair.   Lace fronts maybe covering your bald spots, but it will never give you your actual hair line back.  

Let us all who are smart black women give good black men the real thing and no longer a delusion.  Let us show them we appreciate what God can do for our own crowns.   Let us unite and stand together on this issue and good black men will began to run back to us.  Why?   Because not only have we learn to change our attitudes in a holy fashion, but we have also learned how to grow our own long hair.  

Remember, dear black sisters, began to trust God and serve Him and as you do so, He will honor you appreciating Him for how He created you as a black woman.   Do not give up, God will grow your hair, only if you trust and believe Him.  However, be very patient, it will take many months to grow it back, it all depends on your effort.

Do lace fronts cause women to lose their hair?

A tongue-in-cheek "anti-lace front" video has gone viral on YouTube and social networking sites. As of Thursday, the video, featuring a group of African-American women, was viewed nearly 40,000 times on YouTube.

The video called, "Anti-Lace Front PSA", rallies women to take the lace off. Its commentary says "there's nothing wrong with letting your naps show" and urges women to save "one scalp at a time" until "every real hairline is revealed."

 But with so many high-profile celebrities wearing hair extensions, black women are keen to get the "good hair" look. It is, for example, well-known that the likes of BeyoncĂ©...Read full article, here.

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Saturday, November 19, 2011

NC Forced Sterilization Victims Face 'Possible' Monetary Compensation

The New World Order is no joke and if we aren't hip on the history of these scandalous schemes by now, we had better get out of the clouds and open our eyes. If we do not live for Christ, stay aware of what is going and spread the word, many of us will involuntarily succumb to the enemy's plan.
Forced Sterilization and Eugenics

Officials in North Carolina are planning the possible compensation of victims of eugenics which include specifically forced sterilization. The past and current dirty deeds of our government and their ugly ways of wanting to take control of our lives and control globalization, leaves a bitter taste in the mouths of the victims and should disgust every American. And don't be deceived- we do believe controlling globalization was and still is, its alleged main objective.

The facts are: This form of eugenics targeted poor white women first and conveniently moved into focusing on the poor black communities is criminal.
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Forced sterilizations were used on people thought to have “defective genes,” which included the mentally ill, the physically deformed, the poor, criminals, and certain races and ethnicities. It was based upon a concept known as “eugenics.”
These facts also remind us of how a monkey and a man in Haiti were allegedly injected with the AIDS virus years before the epidemic spread but quickly moved from white gay men to Third World countries to black gay men and now allegedly mostly black women; again, this is criminal. Its criminal and disgraceful. (We'll get into more of this later).

Our country's dirty deeds are creeping out and spreading like roaches all around us. It ought to be very clear what our government and agencies within the government will do to control every facet of our lives. If the government was not allegedly planning to keep certain people from procreating or trying to systematically kill us off, then we are very disillusioned.

Below is a report on the 'possibility' of compensation to victims who were forcibly sterilized. The very mention of 'possible' compensation goes to show how much control they think they still have over peoples lives. They still carry the arrogant, crude and evil attitudes they did when they created the sterilization program.
A North Carolina task force formed by the governor will discuss early next month the possibility of being the first state to compensate victims of forced sterilization programs – programs that seemed to target the poor and disadvantaged, especially in the black population – which were conducted in the U.S. as recently as the late 1970s.
Between 1907 and 1979, 33 states had programs of forced sterilization. While many of those states have officially apologized to the victims of those programs, North Carolina is the first and only state to take steps toward compensation for those victims.
In March of this year, North Carolina Governor Beverly Perdue formed a task force, the North Carolina Justice for Sterilization Victims Foundation, to make a recommendation for the possible compensation of those who were forcibly sterilized under the North Carolina Eugenics Board program. The task force has held, and will continue to hold, public hearings on the matter. Its next meeting will be held Dec. 6 and its final report is due Feb. 1, 2012.
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So, now you know and what will you do with the information?

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Video: The Penn State Scandal Should Wake Up Black Women With Sons

The Penn State scandal is not such a shock to our journalists, simply because a high percentage of African Americans have ceased who they are as a people.   The Bible clearly states, you are not suppose to cease your tribe found in the book of Deuteronomy 7:3. This scripture clearly reveals when you rebel against this specific commandment, you will either become involved with the sins of other tribes or you will be overtaken by these tribes through slavery, if you do not fully submit to God.   The black race has rebelled too far from the instructions God has given them since Biblical times, especially after Dr. Martin Luther King was assassinated for our equality in this country.   As a result, the Penn State scandal is just one example of what happens when our tribe has chosen to separate from their tribe and avoid holiness and righteousness.  Still don't understand?   There should have been some strength within these young black men to resist the lust enforced from this white man, Jerry Sandusky who allegedly raped them while taking a shower.  

Let us ask you, how is it the race of black women who bore sons without their fathers have endured such agony from this particular case?   The answer dear sisters is simple, there has been rebellion, self-hatred and hatred among ourselves, not necessarily saying this is the case with these black mothers in this specific scandal with Penn State, but there are many black families who hate themselves and confuse the children and weaken them so much they fall prey to being sexually and emotionally violated.   Many of our race of black women have hated our own race and loved other races more and many of your black sons who have seen their abnormal behavior have been too weak to resist the lustful behavior of white men like this Penn State coach, Jerry Sandusky.  These black young men were too weak to complain, simply because many of them did not have fathers in their lives.  Many black women have watched their sons be sexually taken advantage of by child molesters, whether they are preachers in the pulpit or coaches of football teams.   However, even if they did see their fathers at one time or another, sadly they possibly watched their fathers hate themselves and not show love to them.   Many black fathers are ashamed to love their black children out in public, but when they mate with white women or any other race, they love them more and uphold them as trophies.   This is probably the same for black mothers, they lack love for their black children who come out too black.  Therefore, many of these young black men who allowed this white man to sexually violate them possibly confused his ill affection with love, when in fact it was only lust to weaken them as black men.

We urge you black women with sons to wake up.   If the fathers of your sons are not in their lives, you must find a way to encourage your son to love himself enough to avoid a white man, a black man, a sick man of any race inappropriately touching them.  No doubt, this coach, Jerry Sandusky had a lot of money and gave these boys so much attention, they were confused of what was right and what was wrong.   Let us remind you, if you keep informing your sons or even your daughters that they are ugly, because of their dark skin, kinky hair and Afro-centric features, do not be shocked of whom they allow to sexually violate them.   This man saw their pain and took advantage of their gullible personality, this is the very reason why he did this to them.   The black race has been known for extreme hate against themselves and each other, so this case at Penn State was bound to occur and possibly many others, unfortunately.   Wake up black women who have sons who are on any sports team or just receiving any sort of attention from a big brother mentor program.   Teach your son to seek Jesus Christ and to allow Him to be his mentor, because most likely when he does, he will understand that a grown man touching him in places where he should not be, is wrong.   Teach him how to defend himself and report any sort of sexual violation, immediately.   Teach him to do the right thing, although other black boys may be afraid to complain.   These cases at Penn State built up to where there were several complaints, but all except for one complained to his mother.

Among the 3.87 million viewers who watched Bob Costas interview accused child rapist Jerry Sandusky on NBC's "Rock Center" on Monday was at least one of the alleged victims of former Penn State defensive coordinator. 

"It sickened me that he would be on TV, said the mother of the child identified as "Victim 1" in the grand jury report. "I think he made himself look more guilty."

Speaking with Jim Avila of ABC News, the mother, whose appearance was obscured and voice altered to protect the identity of her son, addressed Sandusky's claims that his interactions with these underage boys were nothing more than horse play.

"No it's not games," she said. "It's a planned out stratgey to groom children to molest."

The mother revealed that Sandusky's telephone interview reduced her son to tears. Asked by his mother what in particular made him so upset...Read full article, here.

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Friday, November 11, 2011

Sophomore Kortneigh McCoy Fatally Stabbed Saturday: Black Women Please Seek God

Now, we come to inform you that this is not the first time we have heard tragic news, regarding a violent death that involved a black female student killing another black female student, whether on or off campus of a state college in the area of Baltimore, Maryland.   Really, all over the United States many black women have hated each other for many years and it has not gotten any better.   What is the answer?   It is very simple.   God is calling for black women to release the hate and hostility in their hearts and start seeking Him before it is everlasting too late.  You see, if you do not give your heart to Jesus Christ, no telling what circumstance you may find yourself in, although we are not saying the victim in this case, Kortneigh McCoy did not know Jesus Christ.   What we are saying is this, black women must make a decision to serve God, so you will not only be protected by the Holy Spirit, but also be wise not to accompany yourself with those who do not know Him.   McCoy by another black woman was murdered outside of a house party where the accused murderer, Shanee Liggins lived.   Liggins told police someone else stabbed Kortneigh McCoy.

For many years, we as black women grew up hearing our mothers and aunts complaining about how black men do not respect black women, but many times, we have been guilty of destroying ourselves and each other.   Black women have fail to admit or even realize we have helped black men destroy the race of black women, whether through physical or verbal abuse.   It is time to make a decision and seek the Lord God, because He has been so very patient.   God has been waiting for black women to repent and make peace among themselves.   God has allowed AIDS to kill many black women and that epidemic did not even make us unite and pray together.   Sometimes, God will allow the most tragic circumstances to draw people closer to Him, but his expectancy has been ignored and He is very tired of it.   This young black lady did not have to die.   It was said Kortneigh McCoy was a peacemaker.   Many times, when you are a good person, you must distance yourself from people who may cause harm to you, no matter how they may call you stuck up or snobby.   You must distance yourself, because many times, other people who refuse to accept Jesus Christ as their personal Savior may cause you a lot of harm and pain.   

Black women we beg you to began to seek the Lord.   Love other black women how you would love yourself.   After you seek the Lord God, promise Him you will love those how He always loved you.   Promise God, you will not harm your sisters, no matter how much your own mother, aunt, grandmother or even cousin has offended you.   It is time for a change, no matter where the root of hate and so much bitterness comes from.

The Bible says, 'Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall see God.'   So we pray Kortneigh is in the loving arms of Jesus Christ, because her uncle admitted on the news video, she always made peace among those whose hearts were not right.

A memorial service was held on the campus of Frostburg State University to remember a student fatally stabbed at an off-campus party over the weekend.

Korthneigh McCoy was stabbed in the throat and head Saturday and died early Sunday morning. The Baltimore Polytechnic Institute graduate lived in northwest Baltimore.

Court records obtained by 11 News show that the woman accused of fatally stabbing McCoy, Shanee Liggins, told authorities someone else did the stabbing. Liggins is still being held without bail after a review hearing in Allegany County District Court set for Monday was postponed.

Devon McCoy, the victim's uncle, said he was not surprised when he heard that she was injured while trying to break up a fight."She wasn't a person that wanted to fight. 

She wasn't a rowdy person," McCoy said. "She wanted everyone to calm down and come together."Students said McCoy was a nice person whom they never heard anything bad about and that the violence on campus really...Read full story and watch video, here.

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Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Chicago Teen murdered Grandmother After Confronted Him About Skipping School: Black Women Disrespected By The Black Males They Raise

Let us first say this, our condolences go to the family of late Hester Scott.  However, this report claiming that this kid is bi-polar is ludicrous, because back in the day, we couldn't call it that, it was called rebellion and being full of the Devil.   All diseases come from the pit of hell and this case is not excused, because of an alleged diagnosis.   Bi-polar is a disease first mentioned to allegedly excuses cases that involved white people who could not control their anger and then in the last five years, we began hearing more about it among black people, but not according to God's Word.  The Word of God let's us know: 'Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.  Honor your father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise (Ephesians 6:1-2).   This goes for any grandmother or guardian who has authority in place of a parent and Harriet Scott, 55 was raising her grandson, because his mother could not raise him and her other children.   

In this evil day, we as black women must serve the Lord to take over the authority in our homes against the demonic force that may rise up in children.   First and foremost, not saying Harriet Scott did not know Jesus Christ as her personal Savior, but please make sure you are serving the Lord and you serve Him, because if these children do not accept Him, demons will rise up against you.  This has happened before in previous case.  One in particular involved twins who murdered their mother for no apparent reason and then another one involved a grown man who murdered his mother and both of these cases were in Georgia, except in the case of these twins, they were teen girls who lived with their grandmother, but was spending time with their mother.   
Specifically, this case involving this 15-year-old boy not wanting to accept being told what to do, is pure evil.   It has been said that this teen was institutionalized in a mental hospital.   However, no one ever said that this boy excepted Jesus Christ as his personal Savior.  Did anyone in the family know God, because if the reason was sickness in the mind, He needed to Jesus Christ, sending him to a mental institution could never be enough.  We are living in a wicked age of black males who are raised by black women, whether it be their mother, grandmother, aunt or even their mother's friend who is helping to raise them experience extreme hatred and it has nothing to do with the black male being bi-polar, but his resentment comes from the pit of hell.   The average black male who is raised by a black woman feels insecure and many times this comes from his bitterness of not being raised by his father or some type of elder male figure.   This is going on in millions of households across America and it is nothing new.    

The answer is to make sure you a born again Christian, so you can take authority in your home, because if you cannot think of a solution to let someone else raise him or request that he leaves at a certain age, you must make sure your life is in God's hands without having to feel worried about being threatened just because you are in authority as a black woman.

Let us pray before you continue reading the actual report:

Father, in the name of Jesus.  First we want to pray for the family in their bereavement of Harriet Scott.   We bring the race of black women before you right now whomever they may be.   We bind the demonic force in these young black males (or females) who refuse to obey authority.   We pray that these black women repent and find you, if they do not know you.   Satan works through these children, because we know we are living in the last days.   We bind the demonic force, in the name of Jesus, right now.   We ask you to save these black women and these children and lead them how you expect them to live, in the name of Jesus right now.   We bind the demon of violence, anger and bitterness, right now.    Satan, the blood of Jesus is against you right now, you have no authority over these black women or these children.   If they are grown, the demons in them cannot destroy the lives of these black women.   Lord, bless these black women for wanting to do what is right and raise these children.  Help these children not to obey, when they are told to go to school, do their homework and house chores, in the mighty precious name of Jesus.   Amen.

Now, if you do not know Jesus as your personal Savior please go to our Salvation page and get to know Him and there you will find a link for Salvation and to watch sermons on video.   Even better, go here.   God bless you.

A Chicago police officer was stabbed and beaten to death by her 15-year-old grandson after she confronted him for skipping school, authorities said.

Hester Scott, 55, a 25-year veteran of the Chicago police department, found 9th-grader Keshawn Perkins crashed on a couch in the basement of their south side house Friday morning and began badgering him for missing class, prosecutors said, according to the The Chicago Tribune.

The coldhearted teen then attacked his grandmother, pummeling her in the head with a lamp and stabbing her in the head, neck and body with a kitchen knife several times, prosecutors said.

He then wrapped her bloody body in a blanket and dumped it in a sewer trap behind her house, before taking off with her purse, prosecutors charged.

A neighbor spotted the gore-spattered teen dragging something through his backyard and then fleeing, the Tribune said. Perkins was arrested a short time later.

Prosecutors said that Perkins admitted to the savage attack, saying his grandmother had yelled at him for skipping school and he beat her...Read full article here. 

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Has Tyler Perry's Character Madea Ruined the Image of Black Women?

Of course back in the day, most black women loved watching Tyler Perry films and many still do.   However, this issue is very serious and let us deal with it here on Souls of Black Women blog.   The truth that has never been discussed deals with Tyler Perry's character, Madea.   Throughout Perry's career, Madea has been the source of his income while providing much comedy in his stage plays and movies.   The damage caused has been so obvious among black women and how we deal with each other and it has not been so nice, especially in a place like Atlanta where there is supposed to be unity, there is much division and much of it is caused by ignorance of disrespecting each other as though they are Madea.  It has gone on for too long and now it is time to stop.

Now, Tyler Perry may not have thought Madea would cause any damage and the ignorance of many black women who disrespect each other as though they are his character  and it is definitely not his fault.  However, black women who get mad and make it obvious that they are acting like Madea must be known, so they will realize how ignorant they have become while not being who they really are.   These specific black women make trouble on the job, at church and even cannot understand why good black men run, when they see them.

Let us educate the black women are guilty of using Madea's character to disrespect each other while enjoying their few seconds of popularity among those who stand by and laugh.   Madea is a fictional character, she is not real.   When you get angry and you need to say something directly to a black woman you are angry with, be yourself, but do not be ignorant, obnoxious and desire to embarrass someone so much, you bully them.   If you think it is so funny to continue living your life like you are this fictional character making all of your ignorant sidekicks laugh at your silly jokes, please realize in 5 or 10 years, you will not know who you are, because you have become so obsessed with acting like Madea, you will miss out on finding yourself and most importantly, getting close to God.   So now, if this is you, deal with it and learn how to deal with your black sisters on a mature level.   This issue may not seem like it is serious, but this ignorance of black women disrespecting each other while acting as though they are Madea needs to stop, because it is foolish and very silly.  Your fake personality is a nuisance and really has made a negative impact on the race of black women.  

Just a reminder, you will not only miss out on being the intelligent woman you are, but your ignorant behavior will ruin your possible future with a good black man who does not desire to be in love with Madea, but only with you. 

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Monday, November 7, 2011

Black Women and Young Girls Targeted In North Carolina Sterilization Program

This is why we try to encourage all of our dear sisters to love each other, because hatred against all black women go back to the days when they deprived us of freedom and one of those special things were just simply to have children.   The state of North Carolina sterilized mostly black women and young girls and they never knew it, allegedly.   So ask yourself after reading this story is it worth destroying each other, after what the alleged white supremacists did to these black women (and young girls)?   Dear sisters, we are going to have to start listening and understanding each other while acknowledging what the demonic force tried to do to the entire race of black women for so many years and it is not just sterilization.  

Although it is not included in this report involving Eugenics, AIDS was also something planned to destroy humanity of African descent.   This is very sad but true.  If we cannot get black men to love and understand us, the least we could do is to totally surrender to God and pray to understand and love each other. Furthermore, how can we ever love each other, if we choose not to love God and put Him, first?   Satan will always have his demons inside of wicked men and women to try and steal, kill and destroy us as black women, but if we do not have God, we cannot expect for Him to protect us (Note: we are not saying these black women did not know God).   You must wake up, because this is a situation that took place back in the 1950's and 60's and Satan is still using anyone He can to steal our joy, even if it is our own race who are willing to join the white supremacists to destroy black women.

By Michelle Kessel and Jessica Hopper
Rock Center

Elaine Riddick was 13 years old when she got pregnant after being raped by a neighbor in Winfall, N.C., in 1967.  The state ordered that immediately after giving birth, she should be sterilized.  Doctors cut and tied off her fallopian tubes.

“I have to carry these scars with me.  I have to live with this for the rest of my life,” she said. 
Riddick was never told what was happening.  “Got to the hospital and they put me in a room and that’s all I remember, that’s all I remember,” she said.  “When I woke up, I woke up with bandages on my stomach.”

Riddick’s records reveal that a five-person state eugenics board in Raleigh had approved a recommendation that she be sterilized. The records label Riddick as “feebleminded” and “promiscuous.” They said her schoolwork was poor and that she “does not get along well with others.”
“I was raped by a perpetrator [who was never charged] and then I was raped by the state of North Carolina.  They took something from me both times,” she said.  “The state of North Carolina, they took something so dearly from me, something that was God given.”

It wouldn’t be until Riddick was 19, married and wanting more children, that she’d learn she was incapable of having any more babies. A doctor in New York where she was living at the time told her that she’d been sterilized.

“Butchered.  The doctor used that word…  I didn’t understand what she meant when she said I had been butchered,” Riddick said.

North Carolina was one of 31 states to have a government run eugenics program.  By the 1960s, tens of thousands of Americans were sterilized as a result of these programs. 

Eugenics was a scientific theory that grew in popularity during the 1920s.  Eugenicists believed that poverty, promiscuity and alcoholism were traits that were inherited.  To eliminate those society ills and improve society’s gene pool, proponents of the theory argued that those that exhibited the traits should be sterilized.  Some of America’s wealthiest citizens of the time were eugenicists including Dr. Clarence Gamble...Read full story here. 

Photo courtesy and source: Rock Center with Brian Williams

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Black People Who Enslaved Black Women Like Mary Harvey In The 21st Century

In our opinion the way Mary Harvey has been allegedly mistreated by Steve Harvey is a form of slavery.   Recently, Steve Harvey allegedly got Mary Harvey served with papers, again and now she is serving time in jail.   Now, we want to make this very clear to you, this is why the white race is still on top, because Satan uses black people against each other, so they cannot ever enjoy the good life has given them.   Just look at this case, regarding Steve Harvey allegedly harassing his ex-wife, Mary.  He will not give this woman any peace.   Everything she tries to do to enjoy life, he takes it away.   If you do not know why we call this a form of slavery just keep on reading and you will see why.

Steve Harvey is best known for being an entertainer in the world for many years and now the he does gigs for the church.   Recently, he has just allegedly made a deal to be on TBN (Trinity Broadcasting Network), interviewing these so-called born again Christians who are celebrities just like himself.  Allegedly, he mutually agreed to leave his wife, Mary for his third wife, Marjorie.   He and Marjorie are raising his son Mary bore for him named Wynton.   Personally, we feel there is a possibility he and Marjorie's phone must be tapped, because allegedly every time Wynton speaks to his birth mother, Mary, Steve is serving Mary with papers, making false claims of not being a good influence for their son.   Mary cannot even see Wynton, because according to Mary's last interview, Wynton was asking and pleading to see her.   Now that Mary is in jail in again, Steve has served her with more papers, because she was preparing to have a reality show.  This is very unfair and causing her and her eldest son, Steven a lot of stress.  Steven is not Steve's biological son and he has supported his mother while she has been unfairly incarcerated.

Everything Mary has tried to do to continue living her life in peace, this man has tried to stop.  This is similar to white supremacists who took away rights from African Americans during the times of slavery.   They took away our freedom of happiness while holding us in shackles and chains.   Therefore, mentally black people have mistreated their own race by emotionally abusing each other, because of their own selfish reason.  Whenever any black man or black woman tries to steal another human being's happiness and they have not done anything to deserve such cruelty, indeed it is slavery.   Now that Marjorie has the man she allegedly lured through a dirty letter she wrote while he was still married to Mary, it seems like she may not be able to have peace, including Steve who left the woman who was responsible for sticking by him when he was not famous and rich.  Yes, it was Mary who stuck by Steve Harvey, not Marjorie.   Mary was the woman who drove across country with Steve when they had nothing.   So tell us, now that they both have went their separate ways, why is it that Steve has been pushed to serve Mary with papers and take away her freedom to appear on a reality show?   The demon of slavery is controlling this man to take away Mary's freedom.   Also, A Toast 2 Wealth blog will be informing you why Marjorie has allegedly instigated this man to evil to Mary, this demon inside of wicked women like Marjorie goes way back to the beginning of time.   

This case with Steve Harvey serving Mary with papers just when she was about to start her own reality show has not only been the only case of slavery, but there are many black people who are robots for Satan.   This case happens to involve a famous person who has hurt one black woman and yielded to be with another black female who cares nothing about Mary who has been struggling to live life and move on and leave the past behind and forget the pain they both caused her.

Let us continue to pray for Mary, but for now, please do realize people who enslave other people have not always been white.   Many blacks, Hispanics and Asians have also been guilty of doing the same evil as the white supremacists and it is the trick of Satan to always think white people are the only ones capable to be used by Satan to destroy good black women (or men).  

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