We would like to deal with this issue, because our dear sisters are flustered after feeling they were badly mistreated, physically and emotionally abused and verbally mistreated by the men they once loved in their lives.There are certain black men who create such division between black women, because we have allowed them to. In today's society, we are seeing the numbers increase with more black women being in bi-racial relationships with black white, simply because they feel they have received the love black men no longer desire with them. In some cases, it may not be about taking leftovers from white women, but it is about yearning to feel desired by a real man. To some black women, the white men who agree to marry them do not tell them their dark skin is ugly or they are inferior to them, instead they are treating their them royal, simply because they see how many black men have left black women.When we examine how Steve Harvey allegedly mistreated his ex-wife Mary Harvey and allegedly left her for another black woman who cared nothing for her wounded emotions, we can understand to some extent why many black women are excepting the invitation of white men who desire to love them and treat them like the royal queens they are.
Of course, Souls of Black Women have encouraged our dear sisters to wait on God and not to follow the average woman today who has chosen to marry a white man, because others are doing so. However, we do understand certain situations of our dear sisters who are not going to turn down a white man's invitation for true love, if it comes her way. Why? Because many of our dear sisters are tired of being forgotten about, not just by black men who mistreat them, but also black women who back them up and make mockery of their emotional pain. Bi-racial relationships that include our dear black sisters with white men are in the hands of God, because we cannot allow our dear black sisters like Mary Harvey to continue to be mistreated by their ex-husbands and ex-boys friends who allegedly care nothing about their wounded feelings. However, God cares and He sees the pain of our dear sisters whom have accepted a white man's proposal for a good and wholesome marriage. No, we are not ignoring the scripture in Deuteronomy, which told tribes not to take part in interracial marriages, but we can say we do understand it is time for black women to stand together and pray, because we cannot allow our dear sisters to endure pain by the entire race of black people who enslave their own race by emotionally insulting them. This sort of slavery the entire race of African Americans place own their black women, we discussed in our previous article.
Could men like Steve Harvey be the alleged reason why many black women like Mellody Hobson are in bi-racial relationships with white men like George Lucas?If it is, God bless them all and may we stand together in prayer and unity. One things we are concerned about is this very issue, what happens when our dear black sisters who are connected with these white men face racism. How do they deal with it and can they talk with their white husbands?